She Got a Baby's Daddy =/
Every woman deserves to be happy, right? Yea, and I'm all for that even if she has a "trophy" (the award God gave her for f*cking well). But, baby daddies are widely known to just lay down the fort and let you take care of his seed and his ex-girlfriend. Here lies the problem. I think i am past the point of thinking chicks with kids should date guys with kids. Sometimes, guys are assholes and a woman catches a bad break. Should she be forever relinquished into the valley of loneliness for the remainder of her life? I don't think so.
Getting used to the fact that she might not want to have kids for a while is one thing. A crazed baby daddy is another. There are only 3 ways out of this scenario: 1. The baby daddy is dead - God forbid but hey, shit happens - 2. The baby daddy came out of the closet and is now an open homosexual - 3. The mom and the kid relocated to your city under presumed names courtesy of a 1st degree restraining order. Other than that, prepare for a lifetime of cold stares, slick remarks, and an occasional bust window. At least, that's how I see it. Are there any of you out there with a functional extended family where you, the mom, kid and baby's daddy all get along well? If that's the case, that leads me to my 2nd fear - BABY DADDYS ARE ALWAYS ENTITLED TO SEX WITH YOUR WOMAN. Oh man, that's a whole other article.